Simple lessons in life...

1) Don't take people for granted.

Whether it's your loved ones or an acquaintance, one shouldn't take anyone else for granted. If you need to thank or apologize, make sure that you really do it... Because each action and word counts, and can make a difference. Even if others may think that you are insincere, you should still do what you ought to do.

2) Don't make things difficult for others.

There might be still a long way to go- whether it is friendship, colleague-ship or whatever-ship. So as long as one can tahan, one should always try not to make things difficult for others. You may have a long and bad day, but that does not mean that others do not have their share of tough times too. Can tahan, just tahan. Cannot tahan, say your piece in a calm manner and quickly drop the matter. Others do not have the obligation to take what we are going to give.

3) Don't make things difficult for YOURSELF.

Others may have done something wrong or weird to you, but don't forget to continue to care for yourself. Instead of engaging in self-destructive actions which will further worsen your mood, you might as well treat yourself better and go ahead to do what you want or need to do. Others don't owe you a living, and you don't owe others a living too.

These are just some simple lessons that I am trying to learn, and I hope that everyone else can learn too. Then again, everyone is unique and may have different values or beliefs on this... But this should be common sense, no?

Well, if others really did wrong and never do what you expect them to do, don't give the matter too much attention or energy... that will make things easier for yourself and you will be doing justice to yourself... :)

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